How my surname changed in ILH
Published on September 12, 2023
It was 6th April 2022 (my dog’s birthday) when I reached out to a dating coach on our ILH telegram group after he posted about his success story. I was just curious about his niche and wanted to have a very professional discussion seeking business advice.
This story goes back to October 2021, when I did a new moon ritual where I had to sleep with a question and the question intuitively came to me – ‘when will I get married?’
Next night I heard a date ‘13th July’ which made me wonder why and what did I just hear and the next moment I realised that it’s probably the date of my marriage! I was so thrilled and excited. I intuitively even knew that 2022 will be the year I am getting married.
All the answers were coming to me but not the guy I will marry, as I was single for the past 2.5yrs. Yes I did a ‘prophecy’ about my own marriage and yes this became a topic of laughter amongst my friends and family. But did I prove myself right?
It was 8th april 2022 and here we were – A dating coach talking to a self love coach over a phone call for the first time only for the purpose of exploring ideas in our businesses which might lead to a possible partnership in the future, but what kind?
The conversation went on for 3 hours leaving both of us with a feeling of comfort and familiarity. My mind couldn’t stop thinking about one thing that he mentioned about himself. No, it wasn’t that he was a CA turned dating coach or he was the first guy I was ever talking to who is from Bathinda.
While the discussion went a little personal, upon asking the date of birth of this guy I learnt that he was born on ‘13th July’! I felt like this is some sign by the universe about my marriage date but after a lot of flirting (from his side), resistance, drama, signs and synchronicities, alignment, and some more drama we finally realised that it wasn’t the date of my marriage rather it was the date of birth of the guy I will marry!
So on 14th August 2022, within 5 months of meeting each other we tied knots and gave a conclusion to this undeniable soulmate connection! Was my prophecy right? I leave that for you to decide 🙂.
All this while and even after getting married we were hardly focusing on our businesses. My husband used to make around 4-5 lakhs a month before marriage and I was roughly new with my business and just managed to make 70-80k. We were quite occupied with travelling, house hunting and starting our new life together, and lived off his savings and few organic leads that had converted. In short, we were just making ends meet.
After a long gap, we finally settled down in a new rented apartment and realised that it’s high time to start focusing on our work. It was February when we both finally launched our webinar funnel and after this there was no turning back.
When I told my husband in our very first conversation that your students need to love themselves first, I remember how he playfully said ‘tu seekha dio na self love’ which means you only teach them self love. And who knew that this would actually come true!
His niche was super unique and so was mine. Both came under the category of relationships (one with self and the other with girls). We both collaborated for courses and sessions, cross-promoted each other, added credibility to each other’s work by our mere existence.
A few great ads, quality leads, transformational workshops and 1500+ students later – I managed to achieve Hall Of Fame and he managed to enter the Crore Club within 5 months of restarting our businesses!
Looks like 5 is a lucky number for us ;)
Today we are living our best life, travelling abroad like it’s no big deal, bought a Mercedes Benz (both’s first car ever), bought our first house together and all this happened within 1 year of our marriage.
Well, there is a saying that ‘matches are made in heaven’, but for us, on this planet earth it’s called ILH! If it had not been for Sidz we wouldn't have found each other, transformed so many lives, attracted so much financial abundance. We both know that this is just the beginning, many more milestones to achieve, and with God’s grace and Siddharth’s teachings, everything is possible!
So this is my story of finding love in the most unexpected place in the most unexpected way. A story that ends here but also begins...
Love and light,
Shruti Sethi Singh
Founder: Be Your Younique